Wednesday, March 13, 2013

Raydens head surgery!

well they told me that they were going to wait till April to do the tube placement in his brain but they called me Monday mourning and said that they were going to do it so i had to give consent over the phone, it is really hard to give consent over the phone cause what if something happened and i was 4 hours away from him it would kill me, but at the same time i know that he needs it and i don't want to wait any longer because the fluid build up was already causing break down on his brain, and that is defiantly not good and we don't need any more problems then we already have, they only placed the tube for now cause he is swollen still so within the next two weeks sometime they want go in and place a shunt and that is something he will have permanently for life. i am going to go back up to SLC any day now but i called and cant get into the McDonald house today but hopefully tomorrow i am going to miss my girls a lot but i know Rayden needs me really bad, and i miss him a lot. Chris comes home in 2 weeks i cant wait it sucks not being able to talk to him ever with all that's going on we only talk about 1 day a week he does not even know that they did his head surgery:( its hard feeling like i am all alone but you defiantly figure out who really cares and who is really there for you in situations like these. they also have to do another eye surgery(#3) cause his eyes are not getting better i really hope he does not end up being blind! but i will keep you all updated when there are updates! crazy fact my due date was yesterday!i hope he can come home soon i want my baby boy home!

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  1. Thank you for the update, sending you and Rayden prayers and hugs.

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